As I reflect on the journey of my life, it is impossible to overstate the influence of my uncle, Retired Colonel Douglas J. Wear, MD, and his wife, Beth Ann. Their steadfast support, wisdom, and generosity have been a constant in my life—not just for the past 59 years but truly since the day I was born. Their impact has been woven into the fabric of my story, a story of opportunity, resilience, and growth.
A Foundation of Support
In 1966, as a young man navigating my future, my uncle Doug stepped into a pivotal role. He accompanied me to enroll at La Sierra College, his alma mater, a gesture that would become a cornerstone of my educational journey. At the time, I lacked the financial means to secure my spot at the college, but Doug’s unwavering belief in my potential led him to pay the $175 enrollment fee. It was more than a financial contribution; it was a testament to his faith in me.
Doug introduced me to the student aid officer at La Sierra, who worked diligently to secure the financial aid and loans that made it possible for me to pursue a pre-med education. His connections and guidance opened doors I hadn’t imagined could be within my reach. It was through this assistance that I began a new chapter, one that laid the groundwork for my academic and professional achievements.
During my time at La Sierra, I lived with the Lillian V. Miller family. Beth Ann, with her characteristic kindness, ensured that I had lunch every day. Her generous portions—enough to feed six people—were not just about food; they symbolized the care and nurturing that she and Doug consistently provided. My commutes to campus with Victor J. Miller and Glenn Odell in my unreliable 1953 garbage truck green Plymouth became emblematic of a journey propelled by love and support.
The Sacrifices of a Grandmother
My journey to higher education would not have been possible without the intervention of another remarkable family member: my grandmother, Aldena C. Woolery. In 1966, she accompanied me to Newbury Park Academy to settle my outstanding bill. The $2,000 she paid not only released my transcripts but also paved the way for my enrollment at La Sierra. Her sacrifice underscored the deep commitment my family had to ensuring my success, a commitment that continues to inspire me.
A Legacy of Professional Excellence
My uncle’s professional achievements have been nothing short of extraordinary. Retired Colonel Douglas J. Wear, MD, served with distinction in the U.S. Army, ultimately becoming a highly respected pathologist. His tenure at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) placed him in the company of esteemed colleagues, including Dr. Anthony Fauci. His work at NIH and the Armed Forces Institute of Pathology, particularly in the Department of Infectious Diseases, exemplifies his dedication to advancing medical science.
Beth Ann, too, has left an indelible mark through her contributions to adult education. Her work at Washington Adventist University (formerly Columbia Union College) alongside the late Dr. William A. Loveless revolutionized higher education for working adults. Together, they developed one of the nation’s first evening programs tailored to non-traditional students, a model that continues to serve professionals balancing education with other responsibilities. Beth Ann’s dedication to expanding educational opportunities reflects her belief in the transformative power of learning.
A Personal Touch in Times of Grief
The bond between Doug and me has been further solidified through moments of shared sorrow and remembrance. When my father, Thomas Reginald Wear, passed away on December 25, 2022, Doug honored his brother’s memory by reading the Life Sketch at the memorial service. His words captured the essence of my father’s life, providing comfort and closure to our family during a time of profound loss.
Tragically, both Doug and Beth Ann contracted COVID-19 shortly afterward. Beth Ann continues to face the lingering effects of Long COVID, a reminder of the resilience and strength they embody even in the face of personal challenges.
A Lifelong Influence
As I reflect on these experiences, I realize that Doug and Beth Ann’s impact extends far beyond specific moments or milestones. Their influence began long before I enrolled at La Sierra College or faced financial hurdles. From my earliest memories, they have been a source of guidance, encouragement, and love.
Their belief in the importance of education, their willingness to invest in my future, and their unwavering support during difficult times have shaped the person I am today. Whether through Doug’s professional achievements or Beth Ann’s dedication to adult education, their lives serve as a blueprint for service and generosity.
A Testament to Family
Family is often described as the cornerstone of one’s life. For me, Doug and Beth Ann exemplify what it means to be family. They have been my advocates, mentors, and cheerleaders, offering not only tangible support but also the intangible gifts of faith and confidence.
Their legacy is not just one of personal accomplishments but of lives lived in service to others. Whether helping me navigate the complexities of higher education, honoring my father’s memory, or contributing to their respective fields, Doug and Beth Ann have consistently demonstrated the values of compassion and dedication.
Looking Ahead
As I continue to reflect on their influence, I am inspired to carry forward the lessons they have taught me. Their example reminds me of the importance of paying it forward, of using one’s talents and resources to uplift others. Whether through acts of kindness, professional contributions, or simply being present in times of need, their lives are a testament to the enduring power of love and support.
The story of my life is, in many ways, a story of their unwavering commitment to my success. From the $175 Doug paid to enroll me at La Sierra College to the lunches Beth Ann packed with care, their contributions have been immeasurable. They have touched my life in ways that words can scarcely capture, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
As I pen these words, I am reminded of the profound impact that family can have. Doug and Beth Ann Wear are more than my uncle and aunt; they are the architects of opportunity and the stewards of hope in my life. Their legacy will continue to inspire me as I strive to honor their example and make a difference in the lives of others.
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