Daddy issues :)

Let’s face it. Most of us have daddy issues. Our dad was “too strict, too distant, he spanked me, etc. etc.” Some cases are more extreme than others, but I have yet to meet someone who did not have issues with their father. Okay, Charlie, true, but why bring this… More⇢
Life is difficult

“Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult-once we truly understand and accept it-then life is no longer difficult. Because once it… More⇢
Remembering the Mothers…

The post reflects on the importance of mothers, highlighting gratitude for one’s own mother and the love shared with children and grandchildren. It emphasizes the need to honor and remember mothers while navigating grief and supporting others in difficult times. Ultimately, it advocates for love, forgiveness, and cherishing positive memories. More⇢
Learning to Live

I’ve spent a good deal of my life as a human “doing.” I’ve defined myself by my occupation and have internally rewarded myself on my judgment of my accomplishments. In the last few years I have come to realize that this is no way to live. Learning to live in… More⇢
What me, worry?

“How long will it take?” This is one of the questions that I am asked frequently in my day job as a lawyer. This is kind of like asking your doctor, “How long have I got, Doc?” The truthful answer to these questions is “I don’t know.” Lawsuits and life… More⇢
Have a nice day…

“This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it,” entoned Rev. Robert Schuller at the beginning of each broadcast of the Hour of Power. When the warrior-king-poet-musician, David, wrote those words in Psalm 118 I wonder if he was having a “nice”… More⇢
Finding balance

There is a lot of conversation these days about finding “balance.” The fine interplay between work and play is the subject of magazine articles and news stories. This has been the theme for me the last few weeks, for sure. Extremes are something I am trying to avoid these days.… More⇢
Relaxing and Thinking…

This is the second time in a week that I have been out of town, relaxing. It feels good. When I am home at the CrossRoads Ranch, there is so much work to do that it is difficult to relax. Miles away the pressure of the work melts away and… More⇢
Heading toward a new year

Last year was rough. I am really looking forward to 2013. I have been steadily making changes to my work life heading toward semi-retirement. I spent yesterday resting. I think I may have slept about 11 hours if you include naps! There is something therapeutic about being away from home.… More⇢

Meet Minister Charlie Wear

Minister Charlie Wear is a compassionate leader, elder advocate, and creative force dedicated to faith and service. As the head of All-In Ministries, he champions veterans, elders, and marginalized communities. A retired attorney, Charlie blends legal expertise with pastoral care, addressing issues like elder abuse and hospice support. An author and musician, he shares messages of hope through works like Confessions of a Dying Man and his upcoming album Salvation City. Rooted in faith, family, and Native American heritage, Charlie’s mission is to inspire transformation, foster community, and provide care to those in need, embodying Christ’s love in action.

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